Thursday in the 3rd Week of Lent: Letter 18 Notes

In Letter 18, Screwtape moves from the sin of gluttony into the topic of sexual temptation and love.  Lewis is unapologetically traditional on the subject of sexual morality, calling for either abstinence or monogamy.  For C. S. Lewis it is all about relationships. 

Screwtape on the other hand denies the possibility of love because for any good demon, all of life is competition and preying on the weak.  Relationships for a demon are about using, consuming, or absorbing another.  Remember, demons’ corrupt virtues.

And of course, the virtue here is love.  Ancient Greek philosophers identified six forms of love:

1.      Familial love – storge

2.      Friendly or platonic love – philia

3.      Romantic Love – eros

4.      Self-love – philautia

5.      Guest love – xenia

6.      Divine or Unconditional love – agape

 You may remember that the Bible talks about love in many different forms.  We are to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind.  We are to love our neighbors and ourselves.  Our prayer for today talks about God’s unfailing love and links this to the Church. 

On the other side, our reading from Psalm 95 warns the people of God not to harden their hearts which is very Church way of saying don’t stop loving God.  In verse 11, God says that the people who do not love God will not enter into God’s rest.  I like that image that living in God’s love is living in His rest.

And of course there are many teachings about love in the New Testament.  Jesus repeats the commandments to love God and love your neighbor as the greatest commandment and the “second like unto it.”  Jesus often taught the people to love their enemies and those who do not love them in return.  The Apostle Paul gave us the great imagery of love in 1 Corinthians.  Without love I am like a clanging symbol and a noisy gong!

However, Screwtape sounds just like that in his advice to Wormwood.  Much of this letter focuses on the idea of being “in love” and how this feeling can be exploited.  You will remember from previous letters that demons often tempt us to feel a certain way in order to convince us that we experienced an associated virtue.  If we feel in love then we must be. 

Now one thing to remember as we read this letter is that The Screwtape Letters was published in 1942 and Lewis was a confirmed bachelor.  He did not marry Joy Davidman until 1956.

Screwtape reminds Wormwood that the minions of Hell have used any number of poets and novelists to convince us we can all experience that romantic love that leads to marriage.  The problem is from the side of the demons is that all love is based on competition and self-love.  “My good is my good and your good is yours.  What one gains another loses.” 

Yet God “aims at a contradiction.”  Love between two people is for the good of one another.  The model for this kind of love is the Trinity.  In 3 persons – Father, Son, and Holy Spirit – we find unity in being and divine love.

We know that only God creates.  God loves us so that we may share that love with one another.  Rather than separating us, this love binds us together so that rather than compete, we are made to co-operate.

Screwtape points out the place of love in the family that turns out to be simple one more way in which love strengthens the bond between us.  I often tell young people who come for pre-marital counseling that marriage binds us together in a way nothing else does. 

First of all, marriage is a sacrament.  We make vows to one another and then ask God’s blessing on those promises.  The couple actually marry themselves one to another through those vows and then God blesses the union.  And because it is a sacrament, then we believe that God works in that couple through the mystery of faith.  From then on there will never be a time in their married lives that they are separate individuals.  I am always Phyllis’s husband and she is always my wife, so every decision and action we make for each other as well even when we are not together.  This is what it means to be one flesh.

Screwtape also makes light of the whole idea of love.  Remember, and I know I say it often but it is a critical point to understanding how the demons think and tempt in The Screwtape Letters, demons corrupt what God has created.  And we know that we love since God first loved us which means that God creates love and we share it.  So when we love someone else, we are doing what God does.

I also tell folks that marriage is not a 50/50 commitment.  It is 100%/100%.  I think the same is true in our relationship with God.  I can say with all certainty that God loves me fully all of the time.  I wish I could say the same on my end.  Then again, the Apostle Paul reminds us that we are called to continually work to love God more and more.  It is a journey of faith and love so that our goal is love God and our neighbors just a little more each day.

In our reading from Jeremiah today, the people of Israel are reminded that God is our God which as Rich reminds us regularly, if God says He is going to do it, then He does.  Even when God’s chosen people did not love Him, he sent the prophets to remind them.  I think that God sends me reminders everyday of his presence and love in my life.  Often times, my prophets are one of the children at the Day School or a high school student coming for EYC. 

Going back to Psalm 95, we are reminded that worship is one of the chief ways we can love God.  Verse 6 is a good discipline for Lent:

Come, let us bow down, and bend the knee and kneel before the Lord our Maker.  For he is our God, and we are people of his pasture and sheep of his hand.  Oh, that today you would hearken to his voice.”

By the way, if that sounds familiar, we say those verses often in the 9am Sunday service as part of the Venite.

Our Gospel reading today comes from Luke.  Appropriately to our study of The Screwtape Letters, Jesus is casting out demons.  In other words, Jesus his healing people.  Some who are watching him start asking if Jesus’s power to cast out demons comes from Beelzebul, who was known as the prince of the demons in Jesus’s day.  Beelzebul was a name derived from a Philistine god and later adopted by some of the Middle Eastern religions.  It is also associated with the Canaanite God Baal which comes up several times in the scriptures.

Jesus makes the point to the people that day when Jesus acts then it is as if the finger of God has touched you.  Of course Michelangelo’s painting on the Sistine Chapel ceiling immediately came to mind with God reaching out and touching Adam with his finger.  As you read our lesson from Luke’s Gospel, think of God continually reaching out to you and touching you.  It is a marvelous image.

I think that as we read this and all of The Screwtape Letters, it is always good to remember that love is always a gift from God and that love can help us through the temptations.

Let us close with our prayer for today which reminds of God’s unfailing love.  Let us pray.

Keep watch over your Church, O Lord, with your unfailing love; and, since it is grounded in human weakness and cannot maintain itself without your aid, protect it from all danger, and keep it in the way of salvation; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.